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The power of words

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits. Proverbs 18:21 (ESV)

I am realizing more and more lately the power of the tongue. I’ve known this for some time, but it really hit me on Sunday morning. I actually bought a new shirt on Saturday, (this is rare for me, actually my wife was baffled when I said we should look at the clothes for me when we were in the store) and naturally I wore it on Sunday. The shirt is a color I don’t normally wear, and right away in the morning I got a few compliments. I don’t usually get compliments on my clothes, and it was actually quite nice. The words put me in a positive mood, and helped me look at the day with a new light. I know the words are simple, but even the smallest of things has the potential to change our day. Small words make or break my day. Even when someone tells me I have something on my face or in my teeth, it messes with my confidence. I know I should not allow small things like those to affect me, and I’ve tried to not allow it to do so but it is hard.

All this to say how are your small words affecting people? Small words, small compliments of life giving encouragement have a powerful potential to affect and change someone’s day. How will people walk away from an interaction with you?


IMN District Council Thoughts

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On Monday and Tuesday I was at the Iowa Ministry Network’s annual District Council in Des Moines. Basically it was our denomination’s annual business session and conference. I loved the weekend, and the most incredible part for me was receiving my Ordination on Tuesday night. It was a very powerful moment for me, and I am grateful to be a part of the Iowa Ministry Network. I love the leadership of the Network, and am incredibly thankful for all they do to advance the love of Christ to those that have yet to experience it.

While in Des Moines I got to hear and meet Rob Ketterling who is pastor of River Valley Church in the Minneapolis area. Rob spoke some incredible wisdom, and I am definitely better for it. I left the weekend challenged to grow deeper with Jesus, and inspired to take on greater challenges. I also walk away from the conference thinking the truth in Mark Batterson’s idea that a change of pace + a change of place = a change of perspective.

I’ll share a few more thoughts from District Council over the next few days.

What do you need to do to get a change of perspective?

Where have you been lately that has marked you and changed you? Never stop growing.


Waging war on the resistance

Photo from http://365q.ca/In order to be courageous and step out we must first have some sort of goal or dream in mind. One of my goals or bucket list items is to write a book. I have started to write a book probably at least a dozen times. I realize I’ve lacked the discipline to stick to it. Or the focus. Or maybe it is just the courage I have lacked. I mean who am I to write a book?

A friend and I were briefly discussing this idea of writing a book this weekend, and I realized I need to drastically improve my writing if I am to write a book. So that is why I am going to focus more or develop a better discipline of routinely writing on here. I honestly do not know what my book would be about right now. I do know what I am most passionate about and that is missions and the local church. I think that will be a lot of what I’ll be writing about here, but also just this journey to take a bold step of chasing after something. I know I may catch crap for putting this out there, but that’s okay because anyone who does anything worth doing will always run into some sort of resistance. The hard part will be to open up the computer again the next night and keep writing. Tonight I wage war on the resistance.

What is holding you back from chasing a dream?

How can I help you to take steps toward it?


The difficulty of blogging or any other task worth doing…

you-lack-disciplineWell lately I’ve completely fallen off of the blog bandwagon, and I’m realizing I’ve typed that many times over the years of this site. I am realizing that blogging is like many other things in life. It goes in cycles. I don’t particularly like sitting down to write, but I certainly like to have written. This is much like my dilemma with working out, or most any other discipline. We have to wake up, push through, and get stuff done even when we don’t want to do it. I know this isn’t necessarily a great spiritual principle, but it is a life principle and one I need to keep teaching and preaching to myself.

There are a lot of things in life that I don’t like to do, but need to do them. For example I don’t like to floss, but I know it’s good for me. I know I want to be a writer of some sort, but I hardly ever write. So I’m going to attempt to be more regular on here again. I don’t make any promises that it will be great content, but I feel like I just need to put my head down and get more stuff out. For those of you that read my older stuff you may unfollow me if you like, because it may be a whole new direction of writing, and to be honest I don’t care that much about how well it is put together. My goal is going to be to just simply write more. I will write about my passions, my experiments,  and just get stuff out more. I may offend you sometimes, but I hope you’ve read enough of my content to know that is never my goal. It just happens sometimes though. Through this I hope to become a better writer, person, and if I’m lucky enough I’ll inspire a few others to do the same.

What difficult task are you going to start doing? I am going to do this, will you join me with something of your own?

PS.  My wife is having a baby, and I’m very excited to be a dad. But so nervous to be the main influence in someone’s life. Pray for us!


A million things to do, and so few of them truly matter

Each day we have a million tasks to do. We have check lists to check off, to do lists to cross out, and lots of other small details to take care of.

While these things aren’t bad in and of themselves, they can stop us from a very important detail of life. Being present. This lesson of being present is one that I’ve struggled with for more than the last year. I’ve been thinking about the idea since before I went to the 2011 Catalyst Conference in Atlanta where the theme was Be Present. I heard talk after talk about presence, God’s presence, and the overall general idea of being present.

So here I am nearly a year and a half later and still struggling to be present in each moment. Why? There are always so many tasks to be done, and performance is so important in our culture.  There are so many voices in one’s life, that it can be difficult to keep track of each voice and still be present in a particular moment.

One of the most important things in life are moments. Moments shared, memories lived, and life experienced. Don’t let the small tasks, the many voices, and all the clutter cause you to miss an important moment.

What do you do to clear the clutter and be present? Do you disconnect? Shut down? Step away?


Hello 2013

Well, here we are nearing the end of the first day of the year Two Thousand and Thirteen. A time for new beginnings, new goals, new dreams, and just a new start. I love the beginning of a new year. For me it is a time to dream, to challenge, to go big or just go home. I have a lot of dreams and am anticipating a lot for this year. One goal, resolution, or whatever you want to call it is to start writing again. Writing here, and other places. I’ve got many other dreams and goals for 2013, and am honestly so excited about this year. There is so much unknown, and so much story to be written. I know it will be an incredible story to look back on this year.

Last year was a year I called healthy. This year I do not have a word yet, but a few come to mind. Discipline, push, gangbusters. I feel this year is going to be a big step in many ways, and I hope it is the same for you. What are you dreaming for 2013? Where do you want to grow, stretch, and learn?

My area I want to grow the most in 2013 is my communication. By communication I mean speaking, writing, as a leader, as a husband, and as a team member. What is your area to grow? Where are you lacking? How can we help each other?

P.S. Here’s to 2012.


What Christmas story will you tell?

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The Marathon

You’ve all been to the stadium and seen the athletes race. Everyone runs; one wins. Run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You’re after one that’s gold eternally.

I don’t know about you, but I’m running hard for the finish line. I’m giving it everything I’ve got. No sloppy living for me! I’m staying alert and in top condition. I’m not going to get caught napping, telling everyone else all about it and then missing out myself.

1 Corinthians 9:24-27 (The Message)

When I was in high school I hated to run. I did a lot of sports, but I really didn’t like running. I even when out for track, but I still didn’t like running (I went out because of girls…. and to stay in shape for football). But I still knew I had to run. Running for me was sprinting. Give everything you can, and get done as fast as you can. This mentality works well for a 100 meter dash, a 200 meter dash, or even a 400 meter dash, but if you try to run as fast as you can from the get go on anything over 400 meters you probably won’t finish strong.

I got lucky and didn’t have to run too many 800 meter races, but over the past few years I’ve started running longer distances. I’m now looking forward to and training for an Ultra Marathon near Lynchburg, Virginia this fall (Mountain Masochist Trail Run). This type of race is completely different than a sprint. In this race you have to take bathroom stops, consume food and water, hike, run, and just keep moving forward. It has a ebb and flow to it, that a sprint doesn’t.

I think this kind of running (marathons) is the kind of races Paul is talking about here. A sprint is quick and done, but a marathon takes time. Our faith builds and grows with time. There are seasons of pain and suffering, and there are seasons of great joy and prosperity. We have to stay focused on the prize, which is Jesus himself. This means staying focused and moving forward regardless of the pains, joys, and different seasons of life.

Keep it up, life and faith are a marathon, not a sprint.


Happy Birthday America

Happy Birthday America! I hope you all enjoy the day off, and remember our heritage of revolutionary minds with deep rooted faith.


Honk to stop bullying. A problem with so many voices.

I recently followed a car on my way home that had “honk to stop bullying” written on its rear window. At first I thought it was neat that this what appeared to be a student was so passionate about seeing the end of bullying. But then I had a thought, “does getting people to honk really do anything to end bullying?” At this point bullying is such a big problem it no longer needs awareness. To end bullying we need caring students, teachers, and administrators to stand up in the moments when bullying occurs. We need to educate and inspire people to stand up for what really matters.

 

The car with the writing on it brought a different thought to my mind. An unintended consequence of social media and a problem with so many causes. I admit I love causes, and I am quick to rally behind them. But I think so many great causes have created a consequence that people think they stand for something by sharing something on their Facebook wall, or posting a tweet. By simply sharing or posting doesn’t mean you are behind a cause. Letting a cause become part of you, and giving yourself to something bigger than yourself is how you get behind a cause. You make sacrifices. You give time, money, and energy to rally and advance your cause. It may be the sexy thing to post it on Facebook, but does it do anything? There are so many causes and voices screaming for our attention. What cause will you get behind and give your time, money, energy, and yourself to?


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